dear dad，
today i was at the shopping mall and i spent a lot of time reading the fathers day cards. they all had a special message that in some way or another reflected how i feel about you. yet as i selected and read, and selected and read again, it occurred to me that not a single card said what i really want to say to you.
youll soon be 84 years old, dad, and you and i will have had 55 fathers days together. i havent always been with you on fathers day nor have i been with you for all of your birthdays. it wasnt because i didnt want to be with you. ive always been with you in my heart but sometimes life gets in the way.
亲爱的爸爸：
今天我在商场的时候, 我读了好长时间的有关父亲节的贺卡。那些卡片上面的文字很特别，也或多或少地表达出了我对您的感受。我挑选读过一次后，又挑选读了一遍，但那并不是一张贺卡所能表达出我想对您说的话的。
爸爸，很快您就要84岁了，您和我也将度过这第55个父亲节。父亲节的那天，我总是不能和您在一起，连您过生日的时候我也是这样，但这并不是因为我不想陪在您身边。其实，在我心里，我总是和您在一起。不过，有的时候，生活也会有差错。
you know, dad, there was a time when we were not only separated by the generation gap but completely polarized by it. you stood on one side of the great divide and i on the other, father and daughter split apart by age and experience, opinions, hairstyles, cosmetics, clothing, curfews, music, and boys.
the father-daughter duel of 54 shifted into high gear when you taught me to drive the old dodge and i decided i would drive the 54 chevy whether you liked it or not. the police officer who escorted me home after you reported the chevy stolen late one evening was too young to understand father-daughter politics and too old to have much tolerance for a snotty 16 year old. you were so decent about it, dad, and i think that was probably what made it the worst night of my life.
our relationship improved immensely when i married a man you liked, and things really turned around when we begin making babies right and left. we didnt have a television set, you know, and we had to entertain ourselves somehow. i didnt know what to expect of you and mom as grandparents but i didnt have to wait long to find out. those babies adored you then just as they adore you now. when i see you with all your grandchildren, i know youve given them the finest gift a grandparent can give. youve given them yourself.
爸爸，您也知道，我们父女俩曾有一段时间因为代沟不在一起过，比如年龄、个人阅历、观点、发型、化妆、服装、音乐、作息时间以及男朋友，因为这些，我们的观点也非常对立。您站在大分离的一端，我站在大分离的另一端。
那时，您教我学开那部道奇旧车，可我却不管您喜欢不喜欢执意要开雪拂兰54那辆车。当时，我们父女俩关于雪拂兰汽车的争执也调到了最高挡。可那天晚上，您却报警说雪拂兰车被盗。之后，一个警官把我护送到家，可他太年轻了，根本不明白我们父女俩之间的政治斗争，可他也不小了，对一个16岁的流鼻涕的小孩却没有太多的耐心。爸爸，您倒对这件事处理得很体面，而我想那可能是我一生中最糟糕的一个夜晚吧。
在我嫁了一个您喜欢的女婿后，我们俩之间的关系才缓和了好多。后来，我们为了好好地生个孩子，就离开了，我们之间的那些事情也就结束了。这事您也知道，我们没有电视机看，我们就只好自娱自乐了。我不知道我还能对作为外公外婆的您和妈妈抱什么期望，但是，不要等到很久我就会找到答案。过去那些孩子热爱您，现在他们还像以前那样热爱您。当我看见您和您的外孙在一起的时候，我知道您都已经给了他们最好的礼物，您把心都掏给他们了。
somewhere along the line, the generation gap evaporated. age separates us now and little else. we agree on most everything, perhaps because weve learned there isnt much worth disagreeing about. however, i would like to mention that fly fishing isnt all youve cracked it up to be, dad. you can say what you want about wrist action and stance and blah, blah, blah...
ive been happily drifting for a lot of years, dad, and i didnt see you getting older.
i suppose i saw us and our relationship as aging together, rather like a fine wine. numbers never seemed important. but the oddest thing happened last week. i was at a stop sign and i watched as you turned the corner in your car. it didnt immediately occur to me that it was you because the man driving looked so elderly and fragile behind the wheel of that huge car. it was rather like a slap in the face delivered from out of nowhere. perhaps i saw your age for the first time that day. or maybe i saw my own.
就是这样，您我之间的代沟慢慢消失了。现在年龄和其它一些问题的差异把您和我分开，可我们在很多事情的上的看法都是一样的，这可能是因为我们明白了没有那么多的事情值得我们争辩吧。然而，我想提示一下的是，爸爸，飞蝇钓鱼是您最喜欢的一种钓法，您可以说些您想做的手腕动作，站姿和一些没有用的话什么的。
爸爸，虽然我已经漂泊很多年了，但是我很快乐。然而，我却发现您没有变老，还是那么年轻。
随着年龄的增长，我认和我之间的关系慢慢地融洽了好多，就像是一瓶好酒，越陈越香。家人看起来好像没有一点意义似的，但是，上周发生了一件最奇怪的事情，我站在停车标志旁，看见您开着车要拐弯。可是我并没有立刻反映到那是爸爸您。因为那个人开着车，又在那部大车的车轮后面，就显得他岁数很大，身体也很虚弱的样子。可我却感到不知道从哪里飞来的一记耳光似的重重地打在我的脸上，也许，那是我第一次看见您的年龄，也许，只有我自己看见罢了。
fifty years ago this spring we planted kohlrabi together in a garden in charles city, iowa.
i didnt know then that i would remember that day for the rest of my life. this week, well plant kohlrabi together again, perhaps for the last time but i hope not. i dont understand why planting kohlrabi with you is so important to me but it is. and the funny thing about it is, well, i dont know quite how to tell you this, dad...i dont even like kohlrabi...but i like planting it with you.
i guess what im trying to say, dad, is what every son and daughter wants to say to their dad today. honoring a father on fathers day is about more than a dad who brings home a paycheck, shares a dinner table, and attends school functions, graduations, and weddings. it isnt even so much about kohlrabi, 54 chevrolets, and fly-fishing. its more about unconditionally loving children who are snotty and stubborn, who know everything and wont listen to anyone. its about respect and sharing and acceptance and tolerance and giving and taking. its about loving someone more than words can say，and its wishing that it never had to end.
i love you, dad.
五十年前的一个春天，我们在依阿华州查理斯市的一个花园一起栽下苤蓝菜。
当时我也不知道我以后会怀念那一天。这一周，我们还要在一起栽苤蓝菜，这是第二次。也许，这是最后一次，可我并不希望那样。我不明白为什么我和您一起栽苤蓝菜我会感到很有意义，可事实上就有意义。而且，关于这个，有个有意思的事情，可我不知道该怎么和您说这事，爸爸 我不喜欢苤蓝菜但是，我却喜欢和您一起栽苤蓝菜。
爸爸，我想我想要说的话是每个作儿女的今天想和他们爸爸要说的话。过父亲节，给父亲这么一个大的荣誉，决不是因为爸爸给家里挣多少钱，和家人一起共进晚餐，参加学校活动，参加毕业典礼和婚礼的原因，也不止是一起栽苤蓝菜，开雪拂兰54车和飞蝇钓鱼的事，也不止是您毫无理由地爱那些流鼻涕又很淘气，而且什么都懂，就是不听话的小孩。这就是尊重对方，分享快乐，认同和忍受他人，给予和接受吧，您对别人的爱也是不能用言语来表达的，希望这些永不终止。
爸爸，我爱您
My Father
If someone asks me who affects me most in my life, I will definitely tell him or her that the person should be no one else but my father. As a matter of fact, I have been much affected by fathers humor, kindness, enterprise, strong will ever since I was a little girl.
Father is well-known for his humor. He always makes use of his wit and humor to relax tense situation at work. He is m humorous that his colleagues and friends all enjoy staying with him. He also uses humor to create a very happy family atmosphere. My mother tends to chatter over little things. Sometimes she talks angrily without any pause. When this happens, father just listens to her without a word. Why dont you say a word, man?, mother is more angry at father. At this time father would give a cup of tea to mother , then replies: Why not have tea first, my dear? Just take your time to enjoy it. Im always your attentive listener. Hearing these words, mother stops talking with her anger gone at once. Such funny scenes often appear between father and mother which makes our family life happy and interesting.
Father is also very kind to people. He often invites those poor temporary workers who are far away from home to have dinner with us. He always helps our neighbors repair bikes, fill the flat, fix locks, and so on. Whenever any one is in trouble, he never hesitates to offer his warm hands. All this earns him lots of friends and their respect as well.
Father is filled with enterprise in his life. He lost many chances of studying before for .some reasons. But he has never given up learning all the time. He has read many books on architecture in order to work much better as a house-builder. He has gone through lots of difficulties because of his inadequate education. But he hasnt lost heart at all. He keeps learning with strong will. Now he has become a very excellent worker in his company.
My father is the greatest man in the world. His humor, kindness, enterprise, and strong will are always the power of my life. I am very proud of my father.
本文作者从三个不同的角度描述了父亲的幽默、善良及执著的进取心，作者善于挖掘典型的细节，分别描述了父亲感人至深的品行，尤其对父亲幽默的描写，层层递进、栩栩如生。全文布局合理，结构清晰，层次分明。开头直接切入主题，中间分层推进，逐一展开铺陈描述，详略得当，结尾概括精练，父女情深跃然纸上。
本文语言朴实，通篇未见十分复杂的语句，但措辞准确，各类短语、句式运用到位；行文流畅，用词精练。
父亲节英语作文：孩子与父母贱的良好关系是怎样的?what is a good parent-children relationship?
a good parent-children relationship should be set up on the basis mutual understanding and respect. parents can not impose their ideas on their children. they should treat their children as independent individual. it is advisable for the parents to learn to listen to childrens ideas and encourage them to think on their own rather than decide everything for the children. on the other hand, children should listen to their parents advice for theyre more experienced. try to be understanding when there is disagreement with parents. always keep one thing in min---whatever they do comes from their love for us. it is necessary children to exchange ideas with parents from time to time so that the gap between parents and children will be narrowed.
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